我是 路西
Tuesday 30 April 2013
條條都是路
慢慢的情緒緩和下來後，之前如何難過痛苦，好像變得模糊記不清楚了。
這是上帝賜予的能力嗎？只記得美好的部份這樣的能力好像是件好事，
但要如何不再重蹈覆轍呢？
無論如何，好好認真過生活，把握當下每一天，夢想和希望就在不遠處等著去體驗呢！
努力愛自己還有每個人，充滿愛就有能量！
感謝主讓我體驗這些人生的美好，好的壞的點點滴滴都是寶貴的經驗！
Tuesday 23 April 2013
整夜好眠
以前從來不知道什麼是失眠、睡不著的困擾。
隨著越長越大，越來越懂事，知道的事情越多，煩惱也隨著增加。
畢業出社會，不再是單純的校園，人群社交工作事業樣樣是人生的課題，充滿各種
選擇。
特別是談了戀愛以後，在感情世界裡懵懵懂懂的前進 ，用著時間和青春去摸索往
哪走，路上充滿著歡笑和淚水，各種情緒交織出一段段回憶，有好有壞有失落有高潮
；可以開心到只要在愛人懷裡世界末日也不怕，可以傷心到只想離開隔絕捨棄一切也
無所謂，這樣的天堂地獄般的極端。
遇到思緒不停的反覆襲擊，陷在自己營造出的泥淖裡邊，那些當下真的都以為自
己撐不過去。但是調適好自己走出來後，再回頭看那些鬱悶憔悴的時刻，自在的講著
那些快遺忘的不適，自然的睡得香甜安穩，其實都是自己給自己出的難題，自己和自
己的關係最密切。睡飽飽醒來又是美好的一天。
愛情還是一樣美好，未來充滿無限希望，真的好感謝一切，好幸福噢因為有你們！
Saturday 20 April 2013
Friday 19 April 2013
Wednesday 17 April 2013
ARE YOU WITH THE RIGHT PARTNER?
During a seminar, a woman asked," How do I know if I am with the right person?"
The author then noticed that there was a large man sitting next to her so he said, "It depends. Is that your partner?" In all seriousness, she answered "How do you know?" Let me answer this question because the chances are good that it's weighing on your mind
replied the author.
Here's the answer.
Every relationship has a cycle… In the beginning; you
fall in love with your partner. You anticipate their calls,
want their touch, and like their idiosyncrasies. Falling in love wasn't hard. In fact, it was a completely natural and spontaneous experience. You didn't have to DO anything. That's why it's called "falling" in love.
People in love sometimes say, "I was swept of my feet."Picture the expression. It implies that you were just standing there; doing nothing, and then something happened TO YOU.
Falling in love is a passive and spontaneous experience. But after a few months or years of being together, the euphoria of love fades. It's a natural cycle of EVERY relationship.
Slowly but surely, phone calls become a bother (if they come at all), touch is not always welcome (when it happens), and your spouse's idiosyncrasies, instead of being cute, drive you nuts. The symptoms of this stage vary with every relationship; you will notice a dramatic difference between the initial stage when you were in love and a much duller or even angry subsequent stage.
At this point, you and/or your partner might start asking, "Am I with the right person?" And as you reflect on the euphoria of the love you once had, you
may begin to desire that experience with someone
else. This is when relationships breakdown.
The key to succeeding in a relationship is not finding the right person; it's learning to love the person you found.
People blame their partners for their unhappiness and look outside for fulfillment. Extramarital fulfillment comes in all shapes and sizes.
Infidelity is the most common. But sometimes people turn to work, a hobby, friendship, excessive TV, or abusive substances. But the answer to this dilemma does NOT lie outside your relationship. It lies within it.
I'm not saying that you couldn't fall in love with someone else. You could. And TEMPORARILY you'd feel better. But you'd be in the same situation a few years later.
Because (listen carefully to this):
The key to succeeding in a Relationship is not finding the right person; it's learning to love the Person you found.
SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous experience. You have to work on it day in and day out. It takes time, effort, and energy. And most importantly, it demands WISDOM. You have to know
WHAT TO DO to make it work. Make no mistake about it.
Love is NOT a mystery. There are specific things you can do (with or without your partner), Just as there are physical laws Of the universe (such as gravity), there are also laws for relationships. If you know how to apply these laws, the results are predictable.
Love is therefore a "decision". Not just a feeling.
Remember this always: God determines who walks into your life. It is up to you to decide who you let walk away, who you let stay, and who you refuse to let GO! ♥
The author then noticed that there was a large man sitting next to her so he said, "It depends. Is that your partner?" In all seriousness, she answered "How do you know?" Let me answer this question because the chances are good that it's weighing on your mind
replied the author.
Here's the answer.
Every relationship has a cycle… In the beginning; you
fall in love with your partner. You anticipate their calls,
want their touch, and like their idiosyncrasies. Falling in love wasn't hard. In fact, it was a completely natural and spontaneous experience. You didn't have to DO anything. That's why it's called "falling" in love.
People in love sometimes say, "I was swept of my feet."Picture the expression. It implies that you were just standing there; doing nothing, and then something happened TO YOU.
Falling in love is a passive and spontaneous experience. But after a few months or years of being together, the euphoria of love fades. It's a natural cycle of EVERY relationship.
Slowly but surely, phone calls become a bother (if they come at all), touch is not always welcome (when it happens), and your spouse's idiosyncrasies, instead of being cute, drive you nuts. The symptoms of this stage vary with every relationship; you will notice a dramatic difference between the initial stage when you were in love and a much duller or even angry subsequent stage.
At this point, you and/or your partner might start asking, "Am I with the right person?" And as you reflect on the euphoria of the love you once had, you
may begin to desire that experience with someone
else. This is when relationships breakdown.
The key to succeeding in a relationship is not finding the right person; it's learning to love the person you found.
People blame their partners for their unhappiness and look outside for fulfillment. Extramarital fulfillment comes in all shapes and sizes.
Infidelity is the most common. But sometimes people turn to work, a hobby, friendship, excessive TV, or abusive substances. But the answer to this dilemma does NOT lie outside your relationship. It lies within it.
I'm not saying that you couldn't fall in love with someone else. You could. And TEMPORARILY you'd feel better. But you'd be in the same situation a few years later.
Because (listen carefully to this):
The key to succeeding in a Relationship is not finding the right person; it's learning to love the Person you found.
SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous experience. You have to work on it day in and day out. It takes time, effort, and energy. And most importantly, it demands WISDOM. You have to know
WHAT TO DO to make it work. Make no mistake about it.
Love is NOT a mystery. There are specific things you can do (with or without your partner), Just as there are physical laws Of the universe (such as gravity), there are also laws for relationships. If you know how to apply these laws, the results are predictable.
Love is therefore a "decision". Not just a feeling.
Remember this always: God determines who walks into your life. It is up to you to decide who you let walk away, who you let stay, and who you refuse to let GO! ♥
Monday 15 April 2013
我也有這麼一天
從學生時期到現在 , 總是喜歡瀏覽各式各樣的部落格 , 不管是收集旅遊資訊、還是窺視人的心裡想法 , 看文章看那麼久了 , 從來沒有自己動筆的念頭！寫文章貼照片多花時間阿～ 玩都玩不夠了....
24歲以前 , 每天都嘻嘻哈哈 , 表情只有喜 , 沒有怒哀樂這樣天真無憂的生活 , 單純的笑著看待每件事 , 但是小女孩終就是會長大的 , 上大學、出社會、出國 , 順順的日子就這樣過去 , 也好像沒有想不開的事。
直到遇到最近的低潮 , 將近一個月的失眠讓自己有點瀕臨崩潰邊緣 , 思想負面好像快要憂鬱症 , 連呼吸也變得好沈重 , 身體生理出現好多壓力狀況 , 意識到自己不行這樣下去 , 自己得幫助自己撐過這關 , 得有個方式能夠調整自己、不怕丟臉的承認自己的缺失 , 需要有一個空間能把心裡滿滿的思緒傾訴出來....
於是展開了我的部落格人生！
在這裡分享自己 , 其實對路西不是件簡單的事 , 基於保守的巨蟹座自己的隱私藏在自己的殼裡最安全 , 這是個性使然 , 但是常常忍到自己內傷 , 甚至傷害到其他人這就是要改變了！
想要找回那個滿心微笑的自己 , 和那簡單輕鬆的心境 , 做回活蹦亂跳的小白兔。
路西加油！！
24歲以前 , 每天都嘻嘻哈哈 , 表情只有喜 , 沒有怒哀樂這樣天真無憂的生活 , 單純的笑著看待每件事 , 但是小女孩終就是會長大的 , 上大學、出社會、出國 , 順順的日子就這樣過去 , 也好像沒有想不開的事。
直到遇到最近的低潮 , 將近一個月的失眠讓自己有點瀕臨崩潰邊緣 , 思想負面好像快要憂鬱症 , 連呼吸也變得好沈重 , 身體生理出現好多壓力狀況 , 意識到自己不行這樣下去 , 自己得幫助自己撐過這關 , 得有個方式能夠調整自己、不怕丟臉的承認自己的缺失 , 需要有一個空間能把心裡滿滿的思緒傾訴出來....
於是展開了我的部落格人生！
在這裡分享自己 , 其實對路西不是件簡單的事 , 基於保守的巨蟹座自己的隱私藏在自己的殼裡最安全 , 這是個性使然 , 但是常常忍到自己內傷 , 甚至傷害到其他人這就是要改變了！
想要找回那個滿心微笑的自己 , 和那簡單輕鬆的心境 , 做回活蹦亂跳的小白兔。
路西加油！！
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